I usually can't talk about problems with family, well depending on how personal they are because my family are usually what's causing the problems.

With certain friends I can talk about problems, but it depends on how long I've known them and whether I have one of those special connections with them. lol Not trying to sound weird, but that's how it is.

More often than not, I have to vent in here or in my status on facebook to feel better. Not speaking to anyone directly is what works and if anyone is interested enough to care and give advice, then that's just gravy.